This is about as simple as it gets Diamond girl. If you want to find a perfect match you're going to have to put on your goggles and experiment.
It won't be stressful if you go shopping for your perfect match with a strategy.
You've got to become clear and be the go to expert on you! That way you will have confidence when you shop and you won't have to lean on the occasional counter "expert" that leaves you orange, red or worse... looking dead. Side note: InStyle magazine hasn't deemed ashy & casket sharp a trend you need to try yet.